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Fact Sheet

Information for People Who Provide Care for Elders
 Bulletin #4209

Dispelling the Myths of Aging
Prepared by Deborah B. Killam, Extension educator, Aging and Mature Life Skills 

As we discuss the aging process, we need to distinguish between changes that result from normal aging and changes due to disease. Physical changes that are part of the normal aging process happen to everyone, are not reversible and usually do not cause serious disability. Physical changes due to disease are often treatable and may be reversible, but in some instances may result in serious disability. Generally, changes due to normal aging cause a slowdown of bodily functions, while disease leads to temporary or permanent breakdown in functioning. 

Remember, the aging process is as diverse as the people who go through it. Here are some facts about the aging process that you may find useful:

Caring for a spouse is the most common form of caregiving for an older person.

  • Aging is a highly individual experience. People age at different rates.

  • Aging is a very natural process. It begins at conception and continues throughout the life cycle. 

  • Genetics, nutrition, stress, exercise, health care and lifestyle all influence the aging process.

  • Most older adults are in good health. Physiological, sensory, emotional and physical changes occur, but the human body and our ability to compensate for these changes often allows older people to function fine in their later years.

The Senses

Body Functions 

Most older adults are in good health.

  • Respiration: Respiration rates decrease with age. In addition, lung capacity lessens because the muscles and rib cage that control breathing stiffen. It takes more effort to move air in and out of the lungs and more air is left in the lungs after exhaling. Studies show that the amount of oxygen to blood transfer also decreases with age. Less oxygen going to the blood-stream means the person has less “fuel” to do work. 

Body Structure and Organs

Mental Changes

Normal aging is not linked to a loss of intelligence.

Normal aging is not linked to a loss of intelligence. Certain chronic, mental or organic diseases may, however, interfere with normal intellectual functioning. Profound loss and depression can account for an older adult not wanting to be challenged mentally. 

Impaired intellectual function in older adults happens because of certain abnormal conditions. The term senile dementia refers to a progressive and disabling disease that often leads to a shortened life span. Senile dementia is often caused by arteriosclerosis, heredity or environmental pollutants. Less than ten percent of older adults in the United States suffer from this condition. 

Alzheimer’s disease is a type of dementia caused by a deterioration of brain cells. What causes the deterioration is unknown. Alzheimer’s strikes adults as young as 40 years of age and is characterized by behavioral and personality changes, worsening memory and disorientation.

One normal change in memory does seem to be associated with aging. Often, an older adult will be able to recall past events more vividly than recent ones. However, a lack of remembering often stems from not listening carefully, from distractions and from not knowing how to remember. 

Changing Roles, Staying Healthy and Meeting Your Needs

Aging is not a process of decline; it is a process of becoming, of continuing to meet life’s challenges and of growing into a complete human being. The second half of life brings many changes: new career, retirement, widowhood, a new home, an “empty nest.” Many of these changes bring new freedom and opportunities. 

Although these changes may open new horizons, many of them also involve loss. Each change, even when accompanied by loss, offers the opportunity to grow. If you can cope successfully with change, you will continue to grow. 

Feeling good about yourself is part of coping successfully. People who cope with change know their own abilities and limits and want to make their own decisions. They do as much for themselves as possible, but are not reluctant to ask for help when they need it. Coping involves giving and receiving help as well as enjoying and accepting others as they are.

How Caregivers Can Help Aging Family Members, Loved Ones or Friends

The first thing to remember is that the basic needs of older people are no different than those of a younger person. Four basic needs, in addition to food and shelter, are central to the life experience and must be met for an older person to remain healthy. 

First, each person must know that they are loved, wanted and needed. 

Second, though the world of an aging person may become much narrower, the individual must continue to be socially involved. Companionship is important. As a person becomes older, they may feel they are of no use. They may not be able to work or some-times may not even be able to care for themselves. 

Third, elders need to feel useful. Meaningful activities that encourage self-sufficiency should be encouraged. Finally, older people need to be recognized for the positive things they are able to do. We all want to be accepted as we are.

Before you can improve your relationship with an aging family member, loved one or friend, you need to acknowledge your feelings about their aging process. Once you understand your own reactions to aging, you can begin to understand how and why the older person reacts the way they do. With this information, you can begin to make the changes necessary to improve your relationship with them.

Try to remember to build on the older person’s strengths. Be available to the older person and listen when they express feelings of loss. It is important to be honest with your aging family member, loved one or friend. Saying what you feel or think means sharing your inner thoughts in a constructive way. This can be a little risky, but it shows that you trust and respect them and the role they play in your relationship.


For more information on caregiving, contact your county Extension office

References

  • University of Missouri Cooperative Extension, Center on Rural Elderly, SOS for Caregivers/Senior Series. 
  • Penn State, College of Agriculture Cooperative Extension, Family After 40 series. 
  • South Dakota State University Cooperative Extension Service, Caregiving—Basic Needs Revisited.
  • The University of Maryland Cooperative Extension Service, Your Aging Parent series.

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